Originally posted 3/1/2010.
You create a new word
right after dinner
and send it out to play.
It begins with a “C” and starts out strong
but soon trips over its own round foot
and falls down the stairs. .
You bend to pick it up
and cradle it to your bosom,
rocking it while it weeps.
You change it into something
that begins with “E.”
And at once it’s all better.
Isn’t this fun? Creating new words
that mean nothing, do nothing
until you give them voice?
You can’t even pronounce these things.
Still, they’re alive because you breathed them.
It’s a nice power to have.
You can do this as well, you know,
with those you claim to love —
say their names as if you were in charge,
re-spell everything that has hurt them,
change the names themselves
if they carry too much weight.
If the only safety you can offer
is to give them new names
in a language you don’t know
you learn that tongue as fast as you can,
practicing the words
when no one can hear you,
because love
is language invented
and held in secret
until you know
with whom
you are meant to speak.