Originally posted 2013. Revised.
There is a man
who has 1500 friends
on Facebook.
Of the 1500 people
this man calls friends
he has met approximately 800 in person.
Of those 800, he’s had
more than passing conversations
with maybe 200.
Of those 200,
he’s had longer conversations
with perhaps 40.
Of those 40, there are perhaps 15
who are “friends” in the sense of the word
that existed prior to the year 2006.
1500 friends: 800 he’s seen,
400 he’s spoken with,
200 he’s connected with,
40 he would tell his story to,
15 who would agree that they are friends
if they were not vanishing into a cloud
with all the others, because
he no longer sees “friendship”
as a solid object:
no rock upon which
to build, no seawall against which
the ocean can pound; he is alone
as he stares at screens
where all anyone can see
is a storm on the way.
One day, the man decides to read
a three volume unfinished novel
titled “A Man Without Qualities.”
He opens the first volume,
closes it,
opens it again.
He struggles to understand
how there could be
a story three volumes long
of a man who is nothing
beyond what he is asked to be
by others.
The book, over 1500 pages long,
sits on his bedside table
unopened for long spells
as he talks to 1500 friends online
where, if there is
a Quality to “friendship,”
it has been absorbed
into a cloud.
It is being absorbed.
It shall be absorbed.
1500 friends — 800 he’s seen,
400 he’s spoken with,
200 he’s connected with,
40 he would tell this story to,
15 who would nod and agree
if they were not vanishing into a cloud.
To hold on
to those 15 friends
he will have to learn a new word
with which
to draw them forth
from the coming hurricane.
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Reference: The Man Without Qualities
Dark Matter 