keep driving

there are times when nothing i do seems to work out.

i try to be a good guy, y’know; i try to make my life fit into my moral code.

the more i look at me, the less i like what i see. controlling, aloof, miserable, not comfortable in my skin.

this is not self pity. self pity is the poor me syndrome.

this is the cold recognition that i am responsible for all my shit. all of it.

poor me? bullshit. hate me. (you too. join in.)

at this stage of my life, you’d figure i’d have this figured out. and now that i look at me, i know better.

for the record, folks, i’m coming to nationals. i had planned to keep it a secret, make it a surprise, but i know better now; all that fucking drama? the joy of a dramatic gesture? bullshit. what ego.

but the NPS is the last place on earth where people still like me and think i’m a good guy. i hope to remember how to be that while i’m there.

for those who are a little freaked by me now: i am sorry. i will be better, i hope.

here are my steps:

therapist tonight. in-patient stint? maybe.
possible leave of absence from work until i settle.
resolve current living situation.
travel to ABQ.
hang moderately, as much as possible.
return and face shit, for real.

and if those are not enough?

well, let us see what shakes out.